This is a difficult subject to tackle because there are those people who argue that no matter what a person does or does not do they cannot make another person love them. However, other people disagree and say that it is possible to make someone fall in love with you.
Believing, that it is possible to make someone fall in love with you is where most relationships begin. If you have faith in yourself and you believe that a relationship will grow into a long and lasting loving relationship then you have accomplished the hardest part of the task.
If you truly love a man you can gain his love in return, however be careful and do not try so hard that you begin to smother him and drive him away. Start simple and small simple gestures like eye contact and a long gazing smile will work for the initial icebreaker.
If the man approaches, you for the first time simply offer him the chance to sit with you, to hang out, and to chat about something he may have on his mind. Often times this will show the man you care to listen to what he may have to say. Simple little things such as a brief touch here and there is a sign to the man you love that you want to feel him and touch him. This shows him your affectionate side and you need to and want to have contact with him. Try inviting him over to your home for a quiet dinner and some movies fix a nice hearty meal or ask him what he likes and get something form a restaurant and bring it home. On the other hand, pizza delivered in and movies are a nice way to spend less time cooking and more time with him. This should be after you have spent some time with him never welcome a strange man into your home until you know him and are comfortable with him being there alone with you.
Next surprise him for lunch or bring him a special lunch one day for no special reason or make the lunch a special reason just so you could see him and spend some extra time with him. This is always nice if he has the time on his lunch break to do this. Hint and ask first to see how long his breaks are and when he can or does take his breaks then be early so he has plenty of time to enjoy the meal and does not have to scarf it down then return to work. This way he can eat and visit with you then have time for the meal to settle before he returns to work.
These are just some small things and way to make a man feel special and loved and soon you should begin to feel his love in return. Do not feel bad or discouraged if the man does not tell you that he loves you soon after the relationship begins this is a difficult thing for most men to do. This shows feeling and maybe a sign of weakness to allow people into their hearts is scary. Yes, I said scary for a man to allow feeling for another person especially a woman. However, it does happen it will just take time allow him the time he needs and continue to show him your love as much as possible.
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